Antiques Dealers are Your Ally!

Dear Diva Readers,

top: 5px; float: left; color: white; background: #781300; border: 1px solid darkkhaki; font-size: 60px; line-height: 50px; padding-top: 1px; padding-right: 5px; font-family: times;”>Here lately I’ve been doing a lot of public speaking about antiquing in Europe and one of the questions I am frequently asked is what are the basic rules you would teach a novice antiques buyer? My biggest bit of advice? When buying antiques a reputable antiques dealer can be your best friend and biggest ally.

Never be afraid to ask a question – the best thing you can do is engage an antiques dealer in a relationship.  Ask them questions – How old is it? What is it made of?  Where was it made?  What was it used for?  Where does it come from?  Where did they buy it?

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Diva Guide Danielle and clients in discussion with vendor

Antique Dealers are a unique breed – most of whom chose their profession because it’s their passion. They love to talk about their passion with a willing audience. If you’re a willing audience they would love to share with you their knowledge.   Ask a question and let them educate you. Let them be your teachers.

Don’t be afraid that by asking questions you’ll be taken advantage of – or reveal your ignorance.  By asking questions you form a relationship with the vendor.   I must confess in the rare times when I feel a vendor is trying to swindle me – I will ask them about items I know about and see if they are telling the truth.

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Diva Guide Susan and clients in discussion with vendor

What I’ve found when the vendor sees you love the item as much as they do – they want their inventory to go to a good home.  Prove yourself worthy of the purchase and you’re likely to get a better price!

In America clients often say they feel they have to point out what’s wrong with a piece to get a discount. In Europe that strategy doesn’t work.  Remember Europeans don’t tend to be capitalist and so if you point out everything wrong with a piece the vendor might just say “obviously you weren’t meant to own the piece!” 

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When buying antiques the best advice I can give is to  make a  human connection.   As my grandma always said, “You can catch more flies with honey…”

The Antiques Diva®


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Author: Toma Clark Haines

Toma Clark Haines is a Global Tastemaker, Speaker, Writer & Entrepreneur; and founder and CEO The Antiques Diva® & Co, Europe, Asia and America's largest Antiques Sourcing & Touring Company.