The Antiques Diva is Moving!

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A few months ago, my darling husband came home and popped the same question that started our expatriation nearly a decade ago, “Do you feel like learning a new language?” The first time he asked this question 9 years ago, I exclaimed “Oui!” with an exuberant burst of joy – “Watch Out World – Here I come!” Paris never knew what hit them and I had the time of my life. Leaving Paris 5 years later wasn’t as tragic as I expected, for I never really left Paris… Hemingway put it best when he said, “If you are lucky enough to have lived in Paris as a young man, then wherever you go for the rest of your life, it stays with you, for Paris is a moveable feast.”

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Gezellig is one of those words that has no translation…. It sort of means “cozy” but it’s more than that… it’s like getting a friendly embrace, being in a comfortable and charming environment with enjoyable and gregarious people. Our time living in Holland, if described in only one word, was definitely “Gezellig.”

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When my husband told me of a job opportunity which required us to move from Amsterdam to Berlin, I was elated for his new role and for the opportunity to live in another country, but internally I asked the question “Am I ready to move?” I’d barely wrestled the Dutch language into submission, and thoughts of attempting to acquire another language felt daunting…plus I’d made such good friends here, had a growing prospering business and a wonderful social life. For a few days I fell into despair… Move? Not Yet! And then suddenly, this diva got her groove back! Before I knew it I had visions of shopping at KaDeWe, strolling tourismus/sehenswuerdigkeiten.en/28955.html” target=”_blank”>Kollwitzplatz hand in hand with my husband and hanging out with the pretty people on the Gendarmenmarkt. As I dashed to Berlin on a whirlwind house hunting trip, I started singing a new theme song…. My travels were accompanied by the world-weary singing voice of the sultry Marlene Dietrich. But in the background, just as Edith Piaf had whispered songs in my ear even as Johnny Jordaan had lured me north, Johnny Jordaan now competed with Dietrich. Before long I was going to need an internal CD player to keep my theme songs in order!

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One of the best things about moving as frequently as we have (6 times over the last 12 ½ years of marriage) has been the opportunity to try on new cities and countries as if we were buying a new trench coat. In the beginning you’re never quite sure when to wear the coat – is it too light, too heavy, too dressy, too casual? But over time, you learn the best days to wear it (and inevitably you have days when you’d rather wear a different coat!) but over time, it conforms to your body – fitting perfectly in the crease of your elbow, the bend of your waist, gliding over your bum as if it were made for it. The collar stands protecting your throat from a brisk breeze and then one day, a button falls off into a mud puddle and you notice that those “comfortable places” are starting to show some wear. Unfortunately, as with a well worn coat, it seems in our life that just as soon as we start to feel comfortable in a new environment/country, it’s time to move again! And with this move to Berlin, it’s time to buy a new coat again!! Fortunately for me I was out with friends last week and found a vintage mink for a dime – so I’ve got the coat covered for the Berlin breeze – but I fear I am about to be uncomfortable again, learning a new language, learning a new city and a new culture!

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I’ve been perusing expat blogs and getting tips on my soon-to-be German life and planning for adventure! But even as I cleared a spot on my bookshelf for some German travel guides, I knew this move, like the move from Paris to Holland, came with a conditional clause. I’ll be back… And not just for socializing and cultural kidnapping… but also for work – my tour business and public speaking arena.

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I started writing this blog in August of 2007 – ironically, that first blog was about antiquing in Berlin. Shortly after beginning my blog adventure readers began emailing asking for tours, and before long a business was born. I hired Diva Guides in Holland, Belgium and France to help with The Antiques Diva Tours and with the help of these lovely ladies will continue to run Antiques Diva tours. But perhaps the best thing about having started this business is that it is a career in my suitcase. Each place I go allows me to expand my business!!! Once I get my bearings in Berlin, Diva Tours will expand to encompass a new country – Germany!

In the meantime, have patience as over these next few weeks and months I might not be myself as I go through wave one of Culture Shock – Berlin!! As I get settled in a new home, friends have come out of the woodwork offering to help – you’ll note several guest bloggers appearing on my blog in these coming weeks (as they have in the few weeks prior). Should you have an idea you’d like to share with Diva Readers, please email me”> to find out submission guidelines!

As I close, I guess the words of a famous German-speaking Austrian-American come to mind….

“I’ll be back”.

The Antiques Diva ™

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Author: Toma Clark Haines

Toma Clark Haines is a Global Tastemaker, Speaker, Writer & Entrepreneur; and founder and CEO The Antiques Diva® & Co, Europe, Asia and America's largest Antiques Sourcing & Touring Company.

  • Dear All – Apologies for my delay in responding! The movers packed us last week (Tues, Wed, Thurs) and we’re in a hotel until they unpack us in Berlin tomorrow. At the moment we feel a bit in transit… excited, but we feel we haven’t quite landed yet!

    So glad you enjoyed that last picture – it’s one of my favorite pics taken in Holland!

    Vosges Paris,
    Wish me luck with learning the language! So far I’ve had 3 lessons and am terrified of all those LONG WORDS!!!

    Joe Perkins,
    I was delighted to see your comment and will touch base with you in person via email after the madness of the move is done! I’m happy to share my tips and contacts! It’s funny how when you’re passionate about something like we are that opportunity knocks when we least expect it! Nice to meet you and I’ll be in touch!

    Thanks for your thoughts and prayers! I can’t wait to share pics of our new life!!

    Brit Gal,
    Oklahoma weather can be so severe – I can’t wait to check out your site’s latest pics!!!! You are an amazing photographer and I”m certain I’ll be transported “home” through your images!

    Thanks, as always! You’re a doll!

    Victorian Cobweb –
    Huge Thanks! I might be calling on you for some help in the coming weeks… its so nice to know friends about willing and eager to help!

    La Mom – HOW EXCITIING! I’m so excited about the award and discovering your site recently!!! I’m on my way to check it out!

    Sarah Sophia Ganboug –
    What wonderful tips! I’m enjoying “getting to know you through your blogs” and I’ll take any tips you can share!!!

    Last but not least,

    Merci Beaucoup for the guests blogs you emailed me last week! They were great – I’ll be posting them soon!!!!!

    Much Love to All and Apologies on my delay in responding!!!

    The Antiques Diva

  • Good luck in your new adventure. Let me tell you a long story: I’ve been going antiquing in Paris, England and Italy each winter for years. Four years ago a part time worker in my estate sales business (whos’ real job was travel agent) got into a conversation with me that changed my life. I asked if I took some shoppers with me, could I get a free ticket. This venture has evolved to two planned antiquing trips each year. Now that the dollar is worth something, I am deluged with shoppers who knew about me but have hesitated for a few years because of the currency. I am considering adding a trip in July or august and I’m looking for the dates for fairs etc. in Avignon, provence, montpellier or somewhere near enough to drive from Paris. What about Lille? Also, is Farfouille de Leymont still on? I’m having problems finding a calendar in english. I have read most of your blog entries and am fascinated by your knowledge. I will refer some shoppers to your tours in times when I cannot tour them. Check out my website:
    Thanks, Joe Perkins ( Newport, Rhode Island USA)

  • What a wonderful, exciting adventure you two are on! As The Contessa said “We have you covered” – just let us know what you need, everything will fall into place as it is needed. Travel safely my dear friend!

  • I just couldn't believe it! Berlin of all places in the world!!! Well okay… perhaps you want to check out my "Living in Scandinavia"-blog! The last entry was anyway for you and all other pationate "antiques&houses-shoppers;", but the one before that "My background" might now be something which you might wanna read, though it's very political and very, very long… but there is a poem in the middle of it, called "no worries", which you as an American really should read, before moving to Berlin! But okay, times have changed and the cold war is off, for now at least… still it was kind of spooky back then and there…

    Which part of town are you moving to? I grew up in the American Sector, Zehlendorf. It's nice and green, but also the most espensive area.
    You should definitely visit the places mentioned in my poem. The bridge of Glienicke. Take a boat ride on the Havel, Wannsee and on the river Spree and go to the castle of Sanssouci (Potsdam). It's not a coincidence that "Sans souci" = "no worries" is the name of my poem…

    Oh one more thing: I've started to comment the comments on my blogs, since some people do seem to expect that and so there's also an answer waiting for you… thanks for visiting and commenting and I do hope, you will enjoy your new home and let us know how you relate to the langauge!!! But I suppose you should alredy be able to read some German, afterall Dutch isn't that different, is it?!

    Have fun!
    Sarah Sofia

  • Best of luck to you and The Wine Guy my dear friend. Don’t worry, we have you covered. Just relax and enjoy your new experience. A lot of people would kill to be able to live and learn Europe the way you have been able to. May God watch over and protect you in your move.